This post is from one of my friends on Facebook, Ms. Linen. She is a wonderful person and a black woman that knows what she wants, enjoy. Please!!!! leave a comment.
I'll try and keep this as short as possible ("try" being the operative word here)... So, I was having a little chit-chat with a few friends of mine, in which we were discussing this ever so crazy dating thing. You know- good men, love, sex, realtionsips, even marriage popped up in there. In the "sex" portion of the convo, things got a little indepth. As we continued our conversation, an interesting question was posed: "Would you rather make good love, get some really good dick, or get fucked really good?" That, in turn sparked another question: "Is there a difference between the three? If so, what is it?"
Here's my take on it:
Yes, there is a HUGE difference between the three. The "simple" explanation is this: Good dick is about the actual penis itself, and how the man who it belongs to uses it (Basically, "can he fuck?"). Length, girth, shape (curved or straight) all play an important part in classifying a dick as "good". HOWEVER, stroke also plays a very important part in classifying "good dick". It hits the spots that need to be hit. He might miss a few times, but when he does hit it, it's GOLDEN! You may ask, "If it feels so good, then why is it just good dick?" The answer is this: It's because there's nothing there. It's just fucking. Not too much touching, kissing. You're just getting a nut off (or not), and that's that. If he stays or goes or you don't even cum, you could care less. So what the dick was good? There's no "substance" behind it.
The next step up is Good sex. Before I continue, let me just say this; Every man with good dick DOES NOT have good sex! With that said, we have to explain what "good sex" is. Good dick becomes good sex when the man with the good dick now pays attention to how he makes your body feel (and you do the same to him)... You don't have to have to engage in a year of foreplay, but you don't just jump into slam-dancing either! He takes the time to get "it" wet. He's the one who really knows what he's doing. He touches you the right way, in the right places, at the right time, and gets the right reaction. This is the sex where everything that needs to be kissed, sucked, or licked (on both participants) gets kissed, sucked, and licked! And once the "getiin' in" gets in, there's passion. There's fire! You know that heavy-breathing, sometimes-sweaty, close-but-not-stifling, have you sayin' things you won't remember (or regret when you're done), "oh-my-god-why does this feel so good" part? Yeah, that's that "guud-guud"! You're both so into it and it's all about THAT MOMENT, and nothing else matters. The shit's so good you can feel it in your HANDS (y'all know what I'm talkin' about- and if you don't you need to find out!). What solidifies this as good sex is when you think about it later on and it sends that unshakable chill up/down your back, and in your...uh...you know. In your pants. LOL. I'm trying to censor this. lol.
Finally, (and this should be the shortest part) we have the Good Luvin! This one's kinda my favorite (kinda). For single poeple it doens't happen too often (unless ur fucking an ex), but when it does, it's fuckin' beautiful! Good luvin' is when you combine all the aspects of good dick and good sex with... (guys don't cringe) Emotion. Yup. This is where the eomtional part comes in. Not only are you feeling good physically, but now your feelings are in the mix- which also makes this the most dangerous of the three. This is something I can't really describe. You're kind of on your own with this one. But, you have an emotional connection with the person you're fucking and it heightens all of your senses like 90thousand times! And just becasue it's good "love" doesn't mean it's always a slow grind. You can get your back banged out and still be making good love :-)
What's your take on all of this? Agree? Disagree?
I really want to hear from the men too. What's "good pussy"? I've been told there's a big difference between good pussy and good sex as well. Singles, couples, I want to know how everyone feels about this one. And answer the question too: Would you rather get good dick/pussy, get fucked really good, or make good love?
My answer: I'd rather get that guud-guud. No love. I'm tired of my feelings getting hurt. LOL!
I've been saying this for a week, the Dems have got to play the game the way the Rethuglicans are playing it. Saturate the media with your storyline and that is what Americans will remember... not the truth or rebuttal, but the story. This gentleman here is spitting the truth:
Barack and Biden seems to want to engage in a high minded political discussion, but the Rethugs can't win on that battlefront. Picture it like this: you are having an intelligent debate with a person in a conference room at work over how a certain job should be done and out of the blue, the dude you are having this "intelligent debate" with talks about your momma and calls you a faggot, however nobody else in the conference room seems to be responding to the fact dude got all childish on you and expects an intelligent rebuttal. Now what kind of "intelligent rebuttal" would you have to this?
At some point, the campaign's going to have to get into the mud, unlike Kerry and Gore. The Rethuglicans will not hand over the reigns of this naiton without a knockdown drag out fight!
Barack and Biden seems to want to engage in a high minded political discussion, but the Rethugs can't win on that battlefront. Picture it like this: you are having an intelligent debate with a person in a conference room at work over how a certain job should be done and out of the blue, the dude you are having this "intelligent debate" with talks about your momma and calls you a faggot, however nobody else in the conference room seems to be responding to the fact dude got all childish on you and expects an intelligent rebuttal. Now what kind of "intelligent rebuttal" would you have to this?
At some point, the campaign's going to have to get into the mud, unlike Kerry and Gore. The Rethuglicans will not hand over the reigns of this naiton without a knockdown drag out fight!
Eventhough doing this damn near makes me vomit, I must be fair. So in fairness, make sure you view McCain and friends this week during the Republican National Convention. One good point is you get to see first hand all the B.S. that they are saying about themselves and about Obama. McCain is a hero, but then again so is every person that serves/served in the armed forces, that alone does not make you president worthy. Also, Palin (V.P. candidate) is speaking tonight, 9/3/08 at the convention. So go check it out, but take your blood pressure medicine first.
Even though I loved Michelle Obama's speech on Monday, I must say Hillary absolutely killed it on Tuesday. Hillary has a way of being very captivating when she speaks. She's clean and articulate too, Lol. But seriously, she definitely was a true cheerleader for Obama and the entire Democratic party. The only thing I wasn't a big fan of was her Orange Sherbet Suit, no swagger at all. If you didn't see her historic speech, watch below. Please watch it entirely, this is history people.
The next vice president.
Joseph R. Biden was born November 20, 1942 in Scranton, PA. 10 years later he moved to Deleware where he has lived ever since. After training as a lawyer, he became a senator at the age of 30 (fifth youngest senator in history). Biden has served on many different committees and worked on many policies. He first ran for president in 1988 and again in 2008 until he dropped out of the race. He has had some pseudo rascist remarks towards Obama which he later apologized about ("He's clean and articulate"). Obama needs him to be the aggressor and bulldog of their campaign, which Biden has no problem doing. He seems like a good guy with strong family values. To read more go to wikipedia at http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Joe_Biden.
For the readers that are living under a rock, the Olympics ended yesterday with a grand closing ceremony. But now to the nitty gritty, the standings. USA led the medal race with 110 medals to China's 100. However, China beat the U.S. for gold medals with 51 to 36.
Notables:
- Team USA wins gold for Men's and Women's Basketball
- Michael Phelps went 8 for 8 (all gold), 7 of which breaking world records
- Team USA wins gold for Men's and Women's Beach volleyball
- Gold for USA in Women's 4 x 400m relay
- Nastia Liukin and Shawn Johnson winning 9 (combined) medals in gymnastics
- Aaron Peirsol, Natalie Coughlin, Ryan Lochte, and Rebecca Soni all won individual gold
- Venus and Serena Williams won gold for Women's Doubles in Tennis
- Team USA wins gold in Men's Volleyball
- Dara Torres wins Silver
You might say why did I only list golds (besides Dara Torres), thats because Mr. Swagger only deals with the best. Dara Torres is an exception, she's 41 years old and absolutely amazing. Also, Usain Bolt is ridiculous, go to www.edthesportsfan.com to read more on him.
